Ćhaipen thaj patǐv. Konstrùkcia e ʒuvlikane seksualitetaqëri maśkär Rromenθe

Natalia Gancarz

This article concentrates on the issue of the female sexuality. It presents the expectations towards Roma women and the role of virginity. Good reputation and virginity are girls’ main capital, therefore various steps are taken towards guaranteeing it. It is important, as the behavior of a girl and of a married woman influences as well the honor of her parents, grandparents, husband and other family members. Roma expect wives to be fully faithful to her husband whereas women cannot anticipate this. At the same time, women suffer the consequences of their unfaithfulness, as it is thought to be a threat not only to the family but also to the whole group. To clearly present the existence of double standards, expectations towards men, and consequences of their wrong behavior are also presented.

Akava artìklo mothovel buder pal-e ʒuvlikane seksualitetaqëro pućhipen, śeral pala so o manuśa uʒaren e rromněnθär, lenqëre seksualitetaθär aj e ćhaipnasqëre rolaθär. Jekh laćho anav aj o ćhaipen sasto si e ćhienqëro baredër kapitàli – odolesθär vervëra padmadǎ si line kaj te brakhlǒn. Jone si vasne, odolesqe so e ćhajaqëro thaj paledër e rromnǎqëro xodliʒaipen azban i patǐv laqëre dadenqëri, paponqëri, rromesqëri aj bute avërenqëri dr-e inri. O Rroma uʒaren pumare rromněθär te aćhon 100% patǐv lenqe, ʒikaj o rromnǎ naśti te phenen akava angledër… Dr-o lipal vaxt, sùrte jekh rromni atharel pesqëre rromes, o konsekvèncie dukhaven la, odolesqe so akaja doś si dikhni sär jekh phardipen, na sadaj e saste inrǎqe, tok e saste grupaqe (endajaqe). Kaj te oven duśles dikhne o duj standàrdi, o artiìklo mothovel vi so o manuśa uʒaren e rromenθär thaj vi e konsekvènce lenqëre dośale xodliʒaipnasqëre.